fc_smorgasbord | Reasons People Have Sex
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1. | I was "in the heat of the moment." | 2. | It just happened. | 3. | I was bored. | 4. | It just seemed like "the thing to do." | 5. | Someone dared me. |
6. | I desired emotional closeness (intimacy). | 7. | I wanted to feel closer to God. | 8. | I wanted to gain acceptance from my friends. | 9. | It's exciting, adventurous. | 10. | I wanted to make up after a fight. |
11. | I wanted to get rid of aggression. | 12. | I was under the influence of drugs. | 13. | I wanted to have something to tell my friends. | 14. | I wanted to express my love for the person. | 15. | I wanted to experience the physical pleasure/it feels good. |
16. | I wanted to show my affection to the person. | 17. | I felt like I owed it to the person. | 18. | I was attracted to the person. | 19. | I was sexually aroused and wanted the release. | 20. | My friends were having sex and I wanted to fit in. |
21. | My partner kept insisting. | 22. | The person was famous and I wanted to be able to say I had sex with him/her. | 23. | I was physically forced to. | 24. | I was verbally coerced into it. | 25. | I wanted the person to love me. |
26. | I wanted to have a child. | 27. | I wanted to make someone else jealous. | 28. | I wanted to have more sex than my friends. | 29. | I was married and you're supposed to. | 30. | I was tired of being a virgin. |
31. | I was "horny." | 32. | I wanted to feel loved. | 33. | I was feeling lonely. | 34. | Everyone else was having sex. | 35. | I wanted the attention. |
36. | It was easier to "go all the way" than to stop. | 37. | I wanted to ensure that the relationship was committed. | 38. | I was competing with someone else to "get" the person. | 39. | I wanted to "gain control" of the person. | 40. | I was curious about what the person was like in bed. |
41. | I was curious about sex. | 42. | I wanted to feel attractive. | 43. | I wanted to please my partner. | 44. | I wanted to display submission/be submissive. | 45. | I wanted to release anxiety/stress/tension. |
46. | I didn't know how to say no. | 47. | I felt like it was my duty. | 48. | I wanted to end the relationship. | 49. | My friends pressured me into it. | 50. | I wanted the experience. |
51. | I felt obligated to. | 52. | It's fun. | 53. | I wanted to get even with someone. | 54. | I wanted to be popular. | 55. | It would get me gifts. |
56. | I wanted to act out a fantasy. | 57. | I hadn't had sex for a while. | 58. | The person was "available." | 59. | I didn't want to lose the person. | 60. | I thought it would help "trap" a new partner. |
61. | I felt sorry for the person. | 62. | I wanted to feel powerful. | 63. | I wanted to "possess" the person. | 64. | I wanted to feel good about myself. | 65. | I was "slumming." |
66. | I felt rebellious. | 67. | I wanted to intensify my relationship. | 68. | It seemed like the natural next step. | 69. | I wanted to be nice. | 70. | I wanted to feel connected to the person. |
71. | I wanted to feel young. | 72. | I wanted to manipulate him/her into doing something for me. | 73. | I wanted him/her to stop bugging me about sex. | 74. | I wanted to hurt/humiliate the person. | 75. | I wanted the person to feel good about themselves. |
76. | I didn't want to disappoint the person. | 77. | I was trying to get over an earlier person/relationship. | 78. | I wanted to reaffirm my sexual orientation. | 79. | I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions. | 80. | I felt guilty. |
81. | My hormones were out of control. | 82. | It was the only way my partner would spend time with me. | 83. | It became a habit. | 84. | I wanted to keep my partner happy. | 85. | I had no self-control. |
86. | I wanted to communicate at a deeper level. | 87. | I was afraid my partner would have an affair if I didn't have sex with him/her. | 88. | I was curious about my sexual abilities. | 89. | I wanted a "spiritual" experience. | 90. | It was just part of the relationship routine. |
91. | I wanted to lose my inhibitions. | 92. | I got carried away. | 93. | I needed another "notch on my belt." | 94. | The person demanded that I have sex with him/her. | 95. | The opportunity presented itself. |
96. | I wanted to see what it would be like to have sex while "stoned." | 97. | It's considered taboo by society. | 98. | I wanted to increase the number of sex partners I had experienced. | 99. | The person was too sexy/attractive to resist. | 100. | I thought it would make me feel healthy. |
101. | I wanted to experiment with new experiences. | 102. | I wanted to see what it would be like to have sex with another person. | 103. | I thought it would help me to fall asleep. | 104. | It would allow me to "get sex out of my system" so that I could focus on other things. | 105. | It would damage my reputation if I said no. |
106. | I wanted to celebrate something. | 107. | I was seduced. | 108. | I was mad at my partner, so I had sex with someone else. | 109. | I wanted to fulfill a previous promise to my partner. | 110. | It was expected of me. |
111. | I wanted to dominate the other person. | 112. | I wanted to make a conquest. | 113. | I'm addicted to sex. | 114. | It was a favor to someone. | 115. | I wanted to be used or degraded. |
116. | Someone offered me money to do it. | 117. | I was drunk. | 118. | It seemed like good exercise. | 119. | I was pressured into doing it. | 120. | The person offered to give me drugs for doing it. |
121. | I was frustrated and needed relief. | 122. | It was a romantic setting. | 123. | My regular partner is boring, so I had sex with someone else. | 124. | I was on the rebound from another relationship. | 125. | Because of a bet. |
126. | I wanted to get a special favor from someone. | 127. | I wanted to get back at my partner for cheating on me. | 128. | I wanted to enhance my reputation. | 129. | I wanted to keep warm. | 130. | I wanted to punish myself. |
131. | I wanted to break up a rival's relationship by having sex with his/her partner. | 132. | I wanted to stop my partner's nagging. | 133. | I wanted to achieve an orgasm. | 134. | I wanted to improve my sexual skills. | 135. | I wanted to get a job/raise/promotion. |
136. | I wanted to satisfy a compulsion. | 137. | I wanted to change the topic of conversation. | 138. | I wanted to get out of doing something. | 139. | I wanted to test my compatibility with a new partner. | 140. | I wanted to get a partner to express love. |
141. | I wanted to put the passion back into my relationship. | 142. | I wanted to prevent a breakup. | 143. | I wanted to become one with another person. | 144. | I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease. | 145. | I wanted to break up someone else's relationship. |
146. | I wanted to avoid hurting someone's feelings. | 147. | I wanted to get rid of a headache. | 148. | I was afraid to say no due to the possibility of physical harm. | 149. | I wanted to hurt an enemy. | 150. | I wanted to feel older. |
151. | It was an initiation rite to a club or organization. | 152. | I wanted to say "I missed you." | 153. | I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special occasion. | 154. | I wanted to say "I'm sorry." | 155. | I wanted to say "Thank you." |
156. | I wanted to welcome someone home. | 157. | I wanted to say "Goodbye." | 158. | I wanted to defy my parents. | 159. | I wanted to relieve menstrual cramps. | 160. | I wanted to relieve "blue balls." |
161. | I wanted to get the most out of life. | 162. | I wanted to feel feminine. | 163. | I wanted to feel masculine. | 164. | I wanted to see what all the fuss is about. | 165. | I thought it would boost my social status. |
166. | The person had a lot of money. | 167. | The person was a good dancer. | 168. | I heard this person was good in bed. | 169. | The person had beautiful eyes. | 170. | The person made me feel sexy. |
171. | An erotic movie had turned me on. | 172. | The person had taken me out for an expensive dinner. | 173. | The person was a good kisser. | 174. | The person had bought me jewelry. | 175. | The person had a great sense of humor. |
176. | The person seemed self-confident. | 177. | The person really desired me. | 178. | The person was really desired by others. | 179. | I wanted to gain access to that person's friend. | 180. | I felt jealous. |
181. | The person flattered me. | 182. | I wanted to see if I could get the other person into bed. | 183. | We were breaking up and I wanted to let them down easy. | 184. | The person smelled nice. | 185. | I saw the person naked and could not resist. |
186. | I was turned on by the sexual conversation. | 187. | The person was intelligent. | 188. | The person caressed me. | 189. | The person wore revealing clothes. | 190. | The person had too much to drink and I was able to take advantage of them. |
191. | I knew the person was usually "out of my league." | 192. | The person was mysterious. | 193. | I realized I was in love. | 194. | I wanted to forget about my problems. | 195. | I wanted to help my partner forget about their problems/I wanted to lift my partner's spirits. |
196. | I wanted to make my partner feel powerful. | 197. | I wanted to see whether sex with a different partner would feel different or better. | 198. | Writer's Choice | 199. | Writer's Choice | 200. | Writer's Choice |